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St. Valentine

Patron Saint of Love, Marriage and Young People

February 14
Feast Day
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Martyr Saints

📖 Life of St. Valentine

Saint Valentine, officially known as Saint Valentine of Rome, is a third-century Roman saint widely celebrated on February 14 and commonly associated with "courtly love." Although not much of St. Valentine's life is reliably known, and whether the stories involve two different saints by the same name is also not officially decided, it is highly agreed that St. Valentine was martyred and then buried on the Via Flaminia to the north of Rome.

In 1969, the Roman Catholic Church removed St. Valentine from the General Roman Calendar because so little is known about him. However, the church still recognizes him as a saint, listing him in the February 14 spot of Roman Martyrology. The legends attributed to the mysterious saint are as inconsistent as the actual identification of the man.

One common story about St. Valentine is that at one point in his life, as the former Bishop of Terni, Narnia and Amelia, he was on house arrest with Judge Asterius. While discussing religion and faith with the Judge, Valentine pledged the validity of Jesus. The judge immediately put Valentine and his faith to the test. St. Valentine was presented with the judge's blind daughter and told to restore her sight. If he succeeded, the judge vowed to do anything for Valentine. Placing his hands onto her eyes, Valentine restored the child's vision.

Judge Asterius was humbled and obeyed Valentine's requests. Asterius broke all the idols around his house, fasted for three days and became baptized, along with his family and entire 44-member household. The now faithful judge then freed all of his Christian inmates. St. Valentine was later arrested again for continuing to try to convert people to Christianity. He was sent to Rome under the emperor Claudius Gothicus (Claudius II).

According to the popular hagiographical identity, and what is believed to be the first representation of St. Valentine, the Nuremberg Chronicle, St. Valentine was a Roman priest martyred during Claudius' reign. The story tells that St. Valentine was imprisoned for marrying Christian couples and aiding Christians being persecuted by Claudius in Rome. Both acts were considered serious crimes. A relationship between the saint and emperor began to grow, until Valentine attempted to convince Claudius of Christianity. Claudius became enraged and sentenced Valentine to death, commanding him to renounce his faith or be beaten with clubs and beheaded. St. Valentine refused to renounce his faith and Christianity and was executed outside the Flaminian Gate on February 14, 269.

🌟 Legacy of St. Valentine: Patron of Love and Marriage

Patron of Love and Romance

St. Valentine's greatest legacy is his association with love, romance, and marriage. Although the exact origin of Valentine's Day is not widely agreed upon, it is widely recognized as a day for love, devotion and romance. The romantic nature of Valentine's Day may have derived during the Middle Ages, when it was believed that birds paired couples in mid-February. According to English 18th-century antiquarians Alban Butler and Francis Douce, Valentine's Day was most likely created to overpower the pagan holiday, Lupercalia.

Martyr for Christian Marriage

St. Valentine's legacy as a defender of Christian marriage is central to his story. He is said to have secretly married Christian couples so husbands wouldn't have to go to war, and he continued to perform Christian marriages despite the persecution. His willingness to die rather than renounce his faith demonstrates his commitment to the sanctity of marriage and the Christian way of life.

Universal Patronage

St. Valentine's patronage extends far beyond romantic love. He is the patron saint of affianced couples, bee keepers, engaged couples, epilepsy, fainting, greetings, happy marriages, love, lovers, plague, travellers, and young people. His relics can be found all over the world, from Rome to Dublin, Prague to Malta, demonstrating the universal appeal and devotion to this mysterious but beloved saint.

📅 Feast Day

February 14

Feast of St. Valentine

Liturgical Celebration

The feast of St. Valentine is celebrated on February 14th, a date that has become synonymous with love and romance worldwide. While the Roman Catholic Church removed St. Valentine from the General Roman Calendar in 1969 due to the lack of historical information, the church still recognizes him as a saint, listing him in the February 14 spot of Roman Martyrology. In 496 AD, Pope Gelasius marked February 14th as a celebration in honor of his martyrdom.

Traditions and Customs

Valentine's Day has evolved into one of the most popular secular celebrations, with traditions including exchanging cards, flowers, and chocolates. Many churches hold special Masses for couples and those seeking love. The day is marked by celebrations of romantic love, friendship, and the bonds of marriage. St. Valentine is represented in pictures with birds and roses, symbols of love and springtime renewal.

Prayer and Devotion

The feast day is an excellent time to pray for happy marriages, engaged couples, and those seeking love. Many people visit churches dedicated to St. Valentine or pray for his intercession in matters of the heart. The day is also a time to reflect on the Christian understanding of love as a gift from God and the importance of marriage as a sacred institution.

🛡️ Patronage

Primary Patronages

  • Love: Patron saint of romantic love
  • Marriage: Patron of happy marriages
  • Engaged Couples: Patron of those preparing for marriage
  • Young People: Patron of youth and young adults
  • Lovers: Patron of those in love
  • Affianced Couples: Patron of betrothed couples

Special Intentions

  • Bee Keepers: Patron of beekeeping
  • Epilepsy: Patron against seizures
  • Fainting: Patron against fainting spells
  • Greetings: Patron of friendly greetings
  • Plague: Patron against disease
  • Travellers: Patron of safe journeys

🙏 Prayers

Prayer to St. Valentine

"O St. Valentine, patron saint of love and marriage, you who gave your life for the sanctity of Christian marriage and the freedom to love, help me to understand the true meaning of love as a gift from God.

Teach me to love with purity, patience, and selflessness. Help me to be a source of joy and comfort to those I love, and to build relationships that honor God. May your example of courage and devotion inspire me to be faithful in love and strong in faith.

St. Valentine, pray for me that I may find true love, build a happy marriage, and live a life of love that reflects God's love for us. Amen."

Prayer for Couples

"St. Valentine, you who secretly married Christian couples and defended the sanctity of marriage, intercede for all couples today. Help us to build marriages based on love, faith, and mutual respect.

May our relationships be a reflection of God's love and may we always remember that love is patient, kind, and never fails. Amen."

Short Prayer

"St. Valentine, pray for us!"

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